Lately at work, I’ve been experiencing that restless feeling of wanting to leave and explore. It gnaws at you and you fill it with food, distractions, and whatever you can find, but it is still there. It makes you uneasy and ready to leave, so I did. I left and the feeling has dissipated. I felt like that as well in a previous relationship, but kept tucking it away. I tucked it away for four years until I couldn’t ignore it anymore. I decided to put some distance between us and it give me a lot of breathing room to assess what I really wanted. I didn’t understand the feeling at first, but I realize now that it is not something to be ignored. When you are in a bad situation, you know it and if you can’t come to terms with it, you will still feel restless. Feeling restless means you want to escape, and a lot of people are in that boat.
You don’t always have to leave, but you should confront that feeling. Ask why you are feeling restless and tackle the issue. Leaving does not always solve the problem, so get to the core of it. If you get that feeling over and over and leave every time only to feel restless, know that there is something missing in you. Search for what you really desire in a job, a mate, a home, or yourself. If you find you are trying to outrun yourself, know that nothing will ever satisfy you, so you need to stop and figure it out. Above all else, listen to yourself and your needs. If it means letting go, you let go. If it means reevaluating your priorities, then do so. If it means you need to do some soul searching, leaving will not work. You must instead look within.